Understanding your baby’s cries

Crying is one of the ways your baby communicates with you.

He can let you know if he’s hungry, tired or needs a diaper change. The trick is learning when your baby is crying from hunger, pain or another reason. You’ll soon be able to tell what your baby needs just by his cries. Sometimes your baby may be crying for no reason—he’s just had a meal, a nap and a fresh diaper. Some babies just have fussy periods now and then. This kind of crying seems to help babies get rid of extra energy so they can become more relaxed and content.

The best way to handle your baby’s crying is to go to him right away when he cries, especially during the first few months.

You can’t spoil your baby by giving him attention. In fact, if you answer his calls for help, you may find that he’ll cry less overall.

Comforting your crying baby

If your baby’s been fed, changed, rested and he’s still crying, try some of these tips for comforting him:

• Give your baby something to suck, such as a pacifier.

• Swaddle your baby—wrapping him snugly— in a receiving blanket.

• Give your baby more physical contact and movement. Try walking or rocking him.

• Gently stroke his head or pat his back or chest.

• Take your baby for a stroller ride or car ride.

• Try burping your baby to see if he has any trapped gas bubbles.

• Play soft music or try rhythmic noise or vibration.

If nothing seems to work, you may want to just leave your baby alone. Many babies can’t fall asleep without crying. Your baby won’t cry for long if he’s really tired.

Of course, if your baby just can’t be comforted no matter what, you may want to check his temperature to be sure he’s not sick.

If you’re frustrated because you can’t comfort your baby, try to stay calm. Anyone will tell you that listening to a baby cry for hours can test the patience of even the most relaxed person. No matter how angry or impatient you become with your baby’s crying, do not shake your baby. SHAKING AN INFANT HARD CAN CAUSE BLINDNESS, BRAIN DAMAGE OR DEATH. Have a family member or friend give you some relief. Remember, all babies cry, and sometimes for no reason at all. It’s not because you’re a bad parent or because your baby doesn’t like you. Newborn babies cry from one to four hours a day as they adjust to life outside of the womb. Don’t expect to be able to console your baby every time he cries. Just do your best, and be sure to enjoy him when he’s in one of his happier moods!